Wednesday, 14 July 2010

Teenage love analysis.

Lets stop and consider this for ourselves shall we? There is a lot of 'bah humbug' when it comes to teen love from older citizens who feel that we, as an absolute rule, are too young to feel true love. They are WRONG. A teenager is just a likely to fall in love as anyone older, the difference is, I believe, that its a very hit and miss thing. You will get those guys and girls that do, plain and simple, fall in love. Faithfully and deeply. The miss part is that, while there are these young people out there, it is rare for them to find each other. Some get lucky, they do get both sides in love, just like a full, proper relationship. Others, however, don't find one of these, and the one that is venerable to falling completely is also vulnerable to a serious crash if it all turns sour.

Of course, there are the hardened ones, who while are just as vulnerable to love, have learnt to heal themselves with cold logic. For anyone who wants to learn this art, a good start point is to consider these.

'Did you say you loved them?' If yes continue.

'Did they say they loved you too?' If yes continue.

'Did they leave you after a relatively short time?' If yes, continue.

End result, they never really meant it as you did, and your better of without them. Its cold, hard and brutal, but it saved me, so it might save you. That's how you heal yourself when you fall for someone who you thought was perfect for you, and just wasn't. Don't get me wrong, these people can fall in love, it's all down to finding just the right person, and that is down to luck, and perseverance in love. You can't give up on it, or say love can find you on it's own. You have to look and search for yourself, and there are always sacrifices and loses along they way, but although these may hurt you, you have to forgive and forget. Neither of those is easy to do.

This is my belief. There's not much I do believe in. I'm one those that likes to see and touch before I trust. In this however, it is so evident around us that you can almost feel it, and no-one can deny its effect on us all. I believe in love and karma. Both of these can't be proven, but can't be denied, there's just too much example of both, and they are both connected. Karma is what goes around, comes around, and if you put enough effort on finding love, then karma rewards as it passes around. Also, if you needlessly break a heart, assume that karma's is going to catch you one day.

To all you people out there that have found there love, I smile, and to all those who suffer on their journey, I salute you. Those who find have earn't it, and those who still try, you deserve it.

Farewell for this day.








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