Its all about perspective

Yes, its all about how you look at something that defines to you what it really is. What you look for and how you look for it change what you find in the end. Sort of like beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Where one sees perfection, another may see nothing. It all depends on your ideals, on your preferences, on your depth of character value. All these things change how a thing appears. For preferences; you may glance over a red rose, but be transfixed by a white one (thats the best example I can think off without going too far) For depth of character; you may have a friend with you when you see person A (you see that, no presumptions of gender there ladies and gentlemen, so you can fill person with guy or girl dependant on which way you roll, but I digress) Friend is taken back by person A, nudges you to get your attention, and says 'wow, Person A is so beautiful/handsome' and you look and say, 'not really just looks normal to me' and your friend is like ':0' and your like, 'lets move on before you put down roots and get transfixed by person A'

Later, you and your friend happen to run into Person B, and you stop dead in your tracks, become speechless, and if you can, drop what your carrying in a show of 'OMG' Your friend looks at you, seeing your wonder-struck expression, and then looks at Person B, turns back to you, forcibly gets your attention, and asks 'Why Person B?' You look at them, give them a withering look, and say in a love struck voice 'You cold never understand it all' then turn back to look at Person B with a sigh of content, at which point your friend drags you back from Loveland with some comment and you move away, yet both of you are in truth still thinking about your respective Person and arent really into whats going on.

And that is the power of perspective views of people.

It comes down to buying stuff aswell, colours and shapes that you prefer. Different styles of things you prefer, genres. Its mostly about perspective preferances in buying.

So think about that guys and girls, what do you actually look for, in appearance, character/personality, and all the other little things that you see in the person you feel for, what is it that sets them aside for you as perfect, and if you cant think of anything, then you need to think harder, or you lying to yourself and to them.

Love should never be a lie.

And thats the end of todays deep thinking, but seriously think about it, and I have, I know what it is that makes them perfect, and its helps you to accept your feelings in the end